History of Saat Pheras
As per Hindu beliefs, marriages are made in heaven and once it is sanctified, the two souls are joined for seven lifetimes. The seven vows are the seven promises of marriage that the bride and groom make to each other to stay together in happiness and challenges, being each other’s strength thus looking forward to a happy and prosperous life. The seven vows are the crux of an ideal marriage and are to be practiced by the bride and the groom.
What is Saptapadi ?
Saptapadi, Saat Phere means seven steps or seven rounds taken around the sacred fire by the bride and the groom. Each round or step signifies the seven vows that the bride and the groom make to each other. These vows are available in the ancient Hindu scriptures and are considered the most sacred part of the entire wedding. The promises are based on treating the partner equally, being respectful and having a harmonious married life.
First Step
Groom Says: “Om esha ekapadi bhava iti prathaman”
“My beloved, our love becomes strong by you walking one step together with me. You will offer me food and be helpful and supportive in every way. I will treasure you and provide wellbeing and happiness for you and our children”.
Bride Says: “Dhanam dhanyam pade vadet”
“I humbly surrender to you, my lord. I am responsible for the home, household, food and finance. I promise that I shall fulfill all responsibilities towards the welfare of your family and our children.”
Second Step
Groom Says: “Om oorje jara dastayaha”
“My beloved, now as you walk the second step with me, fill my heart with strength and courage and together we shall protect the home and our children.”
Bride Says: “Kutumburn rakshayishyammi sa aravindharam”
“My lord, in your grief, I shall fill your heart with courage and strength. I shall celebrate in your happiness, and I promise you that I will always satisfy you with sweet words and take care of the family and children. And, in return, you shall love me and me alone as your wife.”
Third Step
Groom Says: “Om Rayas Santu joradastayaha”
“As you take the third step with me, may we grow wealthy and prosperous. We will educate our children and may our children live long. I shall look upon all other women as my sisters.
Bride Says: “Tava bhakti as vadedvachacha”
“My love, I will love you with single-minded devotion as you are my husband. I will treat all other men as my brothers. My commitment to you is that of a virtuous wife and you are my happiness. I vow to remain chaste.”
Fourth Step
Groom Says: “Om mayo bhavyas jaradastaya ha”
“It is a great blessing that you have walked four steps with me. You have brought luck and sacredness into my life. Let God Bless us with noble and obedient children. May they live long.”
Bride Says: “Lalayami cha pade vadet.”
“My lord, I will embellish myself from head to toe with flowers, garlands and ornaments, and anoint myself with sandalwood paste and fragrance for your sake. I will strive to please you in every way I can.”
Fifth Step
Groom Says: “Om prajabhyaha Santu jaradastayaha”
“My love, as you take the fifth step with me, you have truly enriched my life. May God bless you and may our loved ones live long and be part of our prosperity.”
Bride Says: “Arte arba sapade vadet”
“I will share your joys and sorrows. I promise to love and cherish you as long as I live. I will trust and honour you and will carry out all your wishes.”
Sixth Step
Groom Says: “Rutubhyah shat padi bhava”
“You have filled my heart with immense bliss by walking six steps with me. May you fill my heart with happiness and harmony at all times and seasons.”
Bride Says: “Yajne home shashthe vacho vadet.”
“My Noble Lord, in all acts of virtue, in material fortune, in all pleasure and divine acts, I promise you that I will participate and shall always be with you.”
Seventh Step
Groom Says: “Om sakhi jaradastayahga.”
“As you walk the seventh step with me, our love and friendship became eternal. We are now husband and wife and we are one. We experienced a spiritual union in God. You have become completely mine and I offer my life to you. Our marriage will be forever.
Bride Says: “Attramshe sakshino vadet pade.”
“My Lord, as God is the witness and as per the Holy Scriptures, I have become your spouse with this seventh step. Whatsoever promises we gave to each other, we did so with a pure mind. We will be honest with each other in all matters and will love and respect each other forever.”
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